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Are you dealing with a narcissist or someone with unreasonable expectations?

Here’s what that actually looks like — and what we do about it:

Your children being withheld or used as pawns
Nothing cuts deeper. Cancelled visits. Ignored agreements. Last minute excuses. When your children are being used as leverage, every day matters. We move quickly to protect your relationship with your children before unhealthy patterns become the status quo.
An Intervention Order changes everything overnight
One allegation can remove you from your home, impact time with your children, and affect every part of your family law matter. We help clients respond strategically, protect their position, and stop allegations from defining the entire case.
You are being financially controlled
Cut off from money. Left in the dark. Watching assets disappear while legal costs rise. We know the financial pressure tactics that often show up during separation and we know how to uncover the full picture.
You are constantly being intimidated or manipulated
Threats. Harassment. Pressure. Using the children to send messages or create fear. Family violence is not always physical and the Court takes these behaviours seriously. So do we.

You don’t have to keep absorbing this.

Here’s what some past clients have to say

Need help with parenting issues?

When parenting disputes turn toxic, “just be reasonable” stops working.

  • Your ex suddenly changes the schedule.
  • The kids stop answering calls.
  • You are accused of being the problem.
  • Every conversation turns into conflict.
  • And somehow you are expected to stay calm while your relationship with your children slowly shifts.

This is where strategy matters.

We fight for parenting arrangements that actually work in real life. Not rushed agreements made under pressure just to “keep the peace”. When negotiation works, we negotiate hard. When Court becomes necessary, we are ready for that too.

  • Recovery orders.
  • Urgent parenting applications.
  • Contravention proceedings.
  • Interstate relocation disputes.
  • Intervention Orders affecting time with children.
  • High conflict co-parenting situations.

But not every parenting matter should end in a courtroom war.

Where a workable resolution is genuinely possible, Melanie’s training in collaborative family law allows clients to resolve parenting disputes strategically, privately and with less damage to the children involved.
Because temporary arrangements have a way of becoming permanent.

Your children’s future is too important to compromise.

Spousal Maintenance

They Cut Off The Money. Now What?

You may not have to wait until the end of your case.
If your former partner has the capacity to pay and you cannot adequately support yourself, you may be entitled to spousal maintenance.

It can be structured around your actual situation

Depending on your circumstances, this can include:

  • Weekly payments to assist with everyday living expenses
  • A lump sum payment
  • Direct payment of your mortgage, rent, school fees, utilities and other essential expenses
Urgent Applications Are Available

If you have been suddenly cut off financially, the Court can move quickly.

Urgent spousal maintenance applications can be heard before a final property settlement is reached, providing financial stability when you need it most, not months down the track when the damage is already done.

Being cut off financially is a form of control. The law has an answer for it.

Five things you can do to protect yourself from the lies and schemes of a former partner

1

Lock down your digital life

Change passwords, remove shared devices, and check cloud access. If they had access once, assume they still might.
2

Keep everything in writing

Communicate via text or parenting apps only. Verbal conversations leave room for denial and distortion.
3

Be careful what you disclose

What you say to third parties (including support services) can be subpoenaed. Not everything is as private as you think.
4

Document everything

Keep a timeline of incidents, payments, and interactions. Contemporaneous notes can become powerful evidence.
5

Get strong legal representation early

Delay gives the other side time to control the narrative. Early strategy = stronger position and fewer surprises.

When your ex is playing games, we play to win.

How we fight for you when your ex is being unreasonable
1

We see through the act

Charm, manipulation, playing the victim — we’ve seen it all. We know exactly how to expose what’s really going on.
2

We build a case they can’t dismiss

Evidence. Strategy. Precision. We identify exactly what is needed and build the strongest possible case around it.
3

We know how to take back control

High conflict people thrive on chaos, delay and intimidation. We shut down the games early, take control of the process, and keep the pressure where it belongs.
4

We level the playing field

Urgent recovery orders. Contravention applications. Injunctions. Spousal maintenance. Freezing assets before they disappear. We know how to use the Court’s powers strategically to protect your position early.
5

We’re in your corner the whole way

Available when you need us. Straight with you always. We’ll train you how to respond so nothing you do compromises your case.

Your ex has been controlling things long enough.

Trust the family lawyer who business leaders, lawyers & the media get their advice from.

Melanie is trusted by the media, her peers, and her clients to speak on complex and sensitive family law issues.
When the stakes are high, experience and judgment matter.

Before you agree to anything: Know the number first

This isn’t an automated calculator. This isn’t AI.

Every submission is personally reviewed by Melanie Vairawanathan, Founder of Melmark Law, because one decision today could affect your financial future for years to come.
Complete your free, confidential property settlement assessment. It could be the most valuable two minutes you spend today.

Worried about legal costs? We have thought about that too.

Separation is already overwhelming. Worrying about how you are going to afford the right legal support shouldn’t make it harder.

Free first
appointment

Meet Melanie and get honest strategic advice before you spend anything

Fixed fees where
we can

Where appropriate, we offer fixed fee arrangements, so you have greater certainty around costs from the outset.

Funding options available
through JustFund

Eligible clients may be able to fund their legal fees and repay them at the end of their matter.

Transparent
billing

Clear communication. No hidden costs. No unexpected invoices.
We believe access to great legal representation shouldn’t depend on your bank balance. Start with a free appointment. Understand your rights. Know your options.

Experts for Business Owners

You didn’t build your business to lose it in a separation.

We understand business & more importantly the dedication, sacrifice, & the skill to build a successful business.

We deal with:

  • Complex company structures
  • Trusts and interrelated entities
  • Cash flow vs real value
  • The risk of forced sale or poor settlements

Protecting your business takes strategy, not just legal advice.

What we can do for you:

  • Make sure your business isn’t just thrown into the mix like everything else
  • Help you keep control so you’re not forced to sell or walk away from it
  • Call out unfair valuations that don’t reflect what your business is actually worth
  • Work directly with your accountants, advisors, and key staff to get the right outcome
  • Stand up for you and fight if things start going sideways

You built it. We make sure you don’t lose it.

A Practical Guide for Mothers Navigating Parenting After Family Violence

A Practical Guide for Mothers Navigating Parenting After Family Violence

A Practical Guide for Fathers where an IVO is preventing contact with your children

A Practical Guide for Fathers where an IVO is preventing contact with your children

The First 7 Days After Separation

The First 7 Days After Separation

A Practical Guide to Parenting After Separation

A Practical Guide to Parenting After Separation

The Property Settlement Roadmap

The Property Settlement Roadmap

The perfect win/win outcome

What if you could resolve this without a fight?

How it works:

A rare qualification — and a real alternative
Collaborative law is not common in Australia. Melanie is one of a small number of lawyers in Victoria — and across the country — who is fully trained and accredited in collaborative law. That means when the conditions are right, you have access to something most people in your situation simply don’t.
Both sides commit to resolution — before it begins
In collaborative law, both lawyers are trained in the process and agree upfront to work toward a mutually acceptable outcome. No posturing. No tactical games. If a settlement isn’t reached, neither lawyer can represent their client in court. Everyone at the table has one goal. And only one goal.
Open conversations. Real solutions.
Instead of entrenched positions and point-scoring, collaborative law creates space for honest discussion about what each person actually needs. The result is an agreement built around your real goals. Not one imposed by a judge who doesn’t know your family.

Not every matter is right for collaboration. But when it is, it changes everything.

We are collaborative law accredited

Save money

No drawn-out litigation, no billable hours fighting for fighting’s sake

Stay in control

You shape the outcome, not the court

Preserve relationships

Critical where children are involved and co-parenting continues

Work with advisors

Financial specialists, child experts, and other professionals can be brought into the process
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When I suddenly found myself needing a family lawyer for the first time in my life, I honestly had no idea where to turn. I knew I couldn’t afford to get it wrong, I needed to find the right lawyer the first time because I had no time to waste. A colleague recommended Melanie at Melmark Law, and I trusted that recommendation immediately. They had already been through several family lawyers before ultimately finding Melanie and achieving the best results with her. That spoke volumes to me, so I called Melanie without hesitation, and I’m so glad I did. I genuinely cannot thank Melanie and Xara enough for everything they did for me during one of the hardest and most stressful times of my life. They were incredibly empathetic and supportive, but also extremely knowledgeable, professional and determined. They gave me the reassurance of knowing I was in very capable hands, and I never felt like just another client. They are damn good at what they do, and I’m so grateful I had them in my corner. Finding the right lawyer is so important, and I honestly feel incredibly lucky that I found Melanie and Xara. I would recommend Melmark Law without hesitation to anyone looking for a family lawyer. Thank you both for everything
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Brighley Dangerfield
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My absolute lifeline! After a borderline terrible experience with a previous family lawyer that milked 5 months of my time, I was recommended Melanie and her team who saved the day (special thanks to Xara too). Communication, execution, and timeliness were all exceptional. The whole Melmark team were on the ball to represent me and get the best outcome for my matter. Also, when I was emotionally exhausted and just wanted this over with (me ideating with compromising my worth), I had Melanie there to talk sense into me and be the voice of reason. If you ever find yourself in need of a Family Lawyer/Law firm, this is where your money is well spent - look no further.
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Akshit Bansal
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Exceptional service from Melmark Law. Melanie and Landi were incredibly thorough, responsive, and committed to achieving the best outcome. Their guidance and professionalism stood out from start to finish. I highly recommend Melmark Law and sincerely thank Melanie and Landi for their hard work.
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Cristyna Saab
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Melmark Law is not just another family law firm. I’m sitting back now reflecting on the one phone call back in March 2025 with Melanie that positively shaped my experience through one of the most difficult periods of my life. Not because of the things I attained, but because a process that could have felt so much more stressful was handled ethically, with professionalism, care, and genuine support by Melanie and her exceptional team. Their approach meant I could continue focusing on the things that mattered most to me throughout the process, particularly, remaining child-focused during an otherwise emotionally challenging time. All I could see was a strong group of women working incredibly hard while juggling the many hats that come with life. There was something about their approach that genuinely rubbed off on me in a positive way. They don’t just help you navigate the legal side of things... they make sure you feel informed, heard, and supported throughout the process. Their communication, responsiveness, proactive approach, and calm presence made an incredibly stressful situation feel far more manageable. I must say, there was never a moment in this journey where I felt like I was on the back foot. So, if you are looking for more than just another family law firm, I would highly recommend Melanie and her team at Melmark Law. They embody compassion, strength, transparency, ethical practice and professionalism, and I’m forever incredibly grateful for the support they provided to me on my journey.
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Sarah Burslem
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I cannot thank Melmark law enough for the compassion, professionalism, and support shown throughout such a difficult time. From the very beginning, I felt heard, understood, and genuinely cared for. Every step was handled with patience, empathy, and clear communication, which made an incredibly stressful process feel far less overwhelming. Their knowledge and dedication gave me confidence and reassurance when I needed it most. I truly appreciated the kindness, understanding, and strength from such an amazing team!!! I highly recommend them to anyone needing a family lawyer who is not only highly professional, but also deeply compassionate and supportive.

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